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Speaking to friends with vastly different taste in men, they all agreed they respected the confidence it takes in approaching someone in real life.
"It is about the risk," said my friend Scarlett, "walking up to someone where you haven't signed some bullshit agreement about being on the market takes guts.
Nearly all said they thought you needed to be super attractive to pull it off.
"It is possible, however, that you are currently in a mutually beneficial, casual hook-up situation. Spend some time thinking about whether or not the relationship is just fine for you as it is.
If we see someone we like across a bar, we're more likely to unlock our phone and start swiping to see if they crop up on Bumble or Happn than we are to go over and talk to them.
Admittedly the bar pick up has long had a bad rep as a y move, where women hang around in slinky cocktail dresses waiting to either be claimed by a man or throw a martini in their face.
Because if you think our mobile phone addictions have ruined mealtimes, think about what it is doing to the ancient ritual of the IRL chat-up.
Where once we looked outwards for people we liked, hoping one is delivered on the wings of chance, now we bow our heads and flick through carefully managed bios and outdated group shots.